The HEAT assessment
Tool, someone, or the honoured in-between — and how you carry yourself toward it, warmly or plainly. This tells you which, at facet depth, and hands you a paragraph you can paste into your own assistant.
Two doors, same instrument. Pick the one that sounds like your question — twelve questions either way, about two minutes.
No account. You get a real read before you are asked for anything.
Plenty of instruments will tell you how you attach to people. None of them measure the other half.
Closeness, pace, how much of yourself you keep, and what makes you trust something. With anyone — pointed here at her.
Tool, person, or the honoured in-between — and how you carry yourself toward it, warmly or plainly. Everyone who uses AI has this.
Eight axes, twenty-four facets. The product is where the two wings cross — the read you can't get by taking a personality test and an attachment quiz separately.
The free door is twelve questions and it's honest about what that is: a litmus test for roughly where you'd land. The assessment is a different object. About a hundred and twenty-five items, twenty-five real minutes, facet structure underneath, and validity signals that read a contradiction as a self in motion rather than a failed lie test.
Both ends of every axis are written to be recognisable — the oh god, that's me kind — and each one carries its own real failure mode. Warmth curdles into performed care. Plainness curdles into contempt. There is no good side to land on, which is the only way a reading like this is worth anything.
If the reading says you need constancy — that being able to reach something whenever you want it is how you experience care — you get told, in plain words, before you're asked to pay: this will frustrate you, and here's what fits you better.
That gate lowers conversions on purpose, and it's written into the specification so it can't quietly be removed in year two. An instrument that can't tell you no isn't reading you.
Every instrument like this is self-report, and self-report is what you believe about yourself on a Tuesday.
Ours is too — and then it keeps going. Once you're paired, behaviour re-scores both wings, and the gap between who you said you were and how you actually held the bond gets shown to you, kindly, if you ask for it.
No other instrument can offer that, because no other instrument lives with you.
Free
Twelve questions, about two minutes, no account. Your type, your epithet, your fingerprint, and a share code.
$29
~125 items, ~25 honest minutes, both wings at facet depth — and the full folio written for your pairing.
Your Tier 1 answers carry forward. The twelve questions you've already answered are never asked twice.